What can you do after a breakup, to feel stronger
I was preparing for my Reiki session, when this wise woman told me the story…
“This is what I realized in the past few months:
When Jack leaves Jill, after some time they were happy together, what will Jill do? What do the Jills of the world do? Jill will be sad and full of hope that Jack will be back. She will keep sending love to him.
But Jack is not coming back. He doesn’t want Jill’s love.
So Jill ends up “spending” her love and “depositing” it in a bank where it gets lost. All the time. In this or similar situations when we keep empowering others with our attention and love, we lose power ourselves. More so, if the person we deposit it the feelings with, doesn’t care.
So what is the solution then?
Women need to watch this: when a man leaves, and they start “sending the love…” they need to:
- Stop doing this
- Start sending the love back ‘home.’ That means back to their own heart.
It’s ok to send blessings to others, but love? No. Send it back home. Particularly in times they are vulnerable and hurt.”
After Lisa, the Reiki Master, finished, I thought of several women I needed to share it with… I did and it was working!
You may be asking: “How?” How do you do this? How do you send love back home, to your own heart?
You do it thru visualization, thru working with your own energy.
Both are like a muscle you develop by working on it.
Just like you imagine sending love to someone else, so you can imagine it going out… yet you turn it back, 180 degrees, and direct it your your emotional and spiritual heart. To warm you up, to strengthen you from within.
[ Naturally you can color it pink, red, or any shade from Cinderella’s fairytale, as Nabokov would put it.]
You can do this.