Three Possible Reasons You Are Not There Yet
Oh! You’re already there?
If so, congratulations. Only you know how much work it took. On all levels.
But this post is for you as well. Because you dislike to keep the status quo, and so:
You may not be “there” yet because…
1. You don’t have a Clear Vision of the final outcome. Or No Sense of Direction.
A question that may help in creating clarity:
WHAT DO YOU CLAIM FOR YOURSELF IN THIS LIFE?
What do you claim for yourself in this project , IN THIS ADVENTURE?
If we don’t ask we don’t get.
Create a strong statement. Say it aloud. Too strong?
Make an even stronger statement.
2. The description of yourself, is now outdated, but you still use it.
You have outgrown it already but you didn’t notice.
If you want to get to new place in life – describe yourself now in new terms.
Use bold terms with audacity. Make it too big.
This is a part of process called “changing your mind”.
3. You are secretly committed to things that exclude your dream.
It’s a type of self sabotage.
When I learned this from Debbie Ford few years ago, I realized
I have lots of underlying commitments I used, as convenient excuses for not going to the next level.
So… what are they? Be candid with yourself.
Now, let’s do the work.
You know, you are going to get “there”.
And it is nonnegotiable.
Please, keep in touch, let us know how it goes…