Transcript is coming tomorrow, in the meantime, this is what I covered: 01:47 what are we healing from and where are we going? 02:57 what we are not doing ? we are not going back… 03:22 how does it start? the big events 03:33 slow awakening midnight anxiety 04:00 five stages of grief 04:15 […]
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Having too high expectations of yourself may be a guaranteed way to get nothing done. We think it is praiseworthy to have high expectations of ourselves. I believed it too but… it was one big lie. If you look closely, you may also see: too high expectations are a way to let yourself down.
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Between the urge to eat it and actually eating it – there is a space. What are you telling yourself in this space, in this moment – matters. And you are either telling yourself lies or the truth. When you automatically eat the sugar – you are getting better and better at the bad habit. You are making the habit stronger in your brain. To eventually break the habit, you need to think, feel, do something different in the moment.
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The biggest myth is that a coach will tell you what to do. that would be a disservice, they would rob you of an opportunity to expand your mind. When a coach asks you a question it is your mind that goes to work. It is your mind that is expanding
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After I clarified what self-discipline means to me, what self-love means to me, I saw that they can be one and the same thing. What do you believe about self-discipline? And are the beliefs helping you or hurting you? Do you bully yourself into sticking to self discipline? Does it affect you negatively if you don’t do it perfectly? How would you feel if you knew you could create great results and self-discipline did not have to be perfect.
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If you do not experience an instantaneous transformation, expect it will be just like changing bad habits: the memory will keep coming back from time to time, but each time it will be less intense. If you do not feed and relive the story, the memory will come up less often. Until one day, it crosses your mind, and you feel nothing about it.
Have patience with yourself.
As you go through this healing and empowering journey, think:
how you can love yourself thru this experience?
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