When people “should” and they don’t
Isn’t it frustrating how often people do things they shouldn’t? He shouldn’t talk so loud. She should apologize. She should pay for dinner since she “owed me.” They should ask first. He should drive slower. They shouldn’t argue at the table. We believe so. We think we are just observing the facts. Likely most people […]
Continue readingWhy do we resist being coached? [video]
Sometimes we resist talking about something that bothers us. We resist being coached on it, that means: looking at it, going deep, so we can release it or transform it. Why? I saw this clearly two weeks ago when I noticed anxiety and fear and tracked it down to something I was thinking. I knew […]
Continue readingCan past life regression assist in our spiritual growth?
In 2020/2021, nearly all regression requests I received were about finding purpose. To hear the voice from within. Why do we need to know our purpose? What do we want to hear? You stopped and reflected… maybe you achieved a lot of things in the material world, but something is missing. You thought you would […]
Continue readingCan you get stuck in a negative emotion?
E-motion wants to be in motion. Emotions move through you when you allow them. We are protecting ourselves from negative emotions in all possible ways. But sometimes, we need to process some uncomfortable yet useful feelings. They may be exactly what we need to go through to get what we want: You may need to feel courage or discomfort […]
Continue readingWe choose every day between these two types of discomfort
(This is for anyone who has a goal and starts working towards it. – weight loss goal, creativity, study, new skill – anything – What to expect? ) Everyone experienced this. We start working on an exciting goal, something we truly believe in, we feel inspired, determined, elated, powerful, clear, all the good stuff, and then… […]
Continue readingThe one thing that will create momentum. Guaranteed!
No magic here. Or rather: schedule is magic! Schedule creates momentum because…. Following your schedule you avoid decision fatigue. Inspiration alone is not enough when you show up to the task daily – inspiration starts showing up too As a procrastinator – when you put a small doable task on your schedule – even you […]
Continue readingHow to measure progress? If the scales were not around…[weight]
The last time I stepped in the scale, few weeks ago, the only words that crossed my mind were “this… is… bulls%&^!” I was in disbelief! So much work! I should be at my goal weight. However the scale didn’t agree. But you know what? This is drama. We don’t want drama…. I looked at […]
Continue readingAre You Stuck in Confusion? [video]
(video below) It’s not uncommon for us to procrastinate because we are confused. But it’s one thing to be confused because you learn something new, get the clarity and move on it’s entirely different thing to get stuck and indulge in confusion, In this article I cover three things: how to tell if you […]
Continue readingCase study #2: Hypnotherapy for Anger
A lot of people are landing on my website because of few blogs I wrote years ago, on releasing the suppressed anger. But to read a blog is one thing. To do the work is another. Anger is a powerful emotion. Interestingly, it often erupts because we feel powerless. Here is what we did with […]
Continue readingExhausting Thinking vs Quality Thinking [mind management]
It was 9:30 am and I needed a break. I was already tired and yet… I haven’t done anything yet. Except for lots of thinking. I know that the brain takes 20% of our whole energy, when working hard, but I was so mentally tired I really needed to take a look at WHAT was […]
Continue readingIt’s not about your lack of willpower
It’s not about willpower. It really isn’t… It’s about your awareness of what you do or don’t do. It’s about your ability to change the state of mind. About knowing what, when, and why to eat. Knowing how to plan. It’s really hard: to use willpower when you don’t know what to eat. when you […]
Continue readingWhen do people hire a weight loss coach? [video]
Everyone’s story is unique. Everyone has a different story to tell when they arrive at the point when:“This (excess fat) has to go. I’m the real me when I’m thinner. I am ready to prove I can accomplish that.” I have been thinking about every person that coached so far with me… at what point […]
Continue readingProcrastinator’s drama and the secret to getting it done [video]
Do you often find your self in the kitchen, foraging, especially when you have something important to do? I do. These days I know exactly what I’m doing, so I open the fridge, ask myself why am I here, and, since there is no good answer – I go back to my desk. But yesterday […]
Continue readingWhy you never finish a project? (or a diet)
Do you have a habit of starting and not finishing? A creative project? Or a weight loss plan? If yes, read on below (exact transcript from the video) because this blog may give you a hint of how to break the cycle of always starting and never finishing. In you creative process, whenever you […]
Continue readingFeeling Confused? That’s the first step in learning something new
…I’m walking the airport back and forth. No signs. Instructed by the airport workers, where to go, I still go back and forth, depending on who I talk to. (it’s not a dream, it’s the Schiphole) …I’m staring at a wordpress plug-in. I’m pretty sure there is steam coming from my ears from my overworked […]
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