If you want to be efficient in problem solving, to simplify it, you need to know the foundation of mental work. You need to know there are only five things in the Universe, and only 5 things in your life and in any given problem. This is what we do in causal coaching.
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I love this quote Hafiz: The words you speak become the house you live in.
If so… it is even more true that the thoughts you think become the house you live in. You can’t run away from your thoughts, they are always there. Today I want to talk about Mindset. Mindset being a collection of thoughts. The house you live in. Mindset is affecting how we experience life and what we create in each area of life. If you don’t like the experience that your mindset is creating – what can you do?
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If a Limiting belief is limiting our potential, then the opposite is expansive, freeing expanding, elevating, amplifying, simply empowering beliefs. Limiting beliefs are thoughts that pretend to be true
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Isn’t it frustrating how often people do things they shouldn’t? He shouldn’t talk so loud. She should apologize. She should pay for dinner since she “owed me.” They should ask first. He should drive slower. They shouldn’t argue at the table. We believe so. We think we are just observing the facts. Likely most people […]
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Sometimes we resist talking about something that bothers us. We resist being coached on it, that means: looking at it, going deep, so we can release it or transform it. Why? I saw this clearly two weeks ago when I noticed anxiety and fear and tracked it down to something I was thinking. I knew […]
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If you think about past life regression maybe it’s because you stopped and reflected… maybe you achieved a lot but something is still missing. You thought you would feel complete once you made something happen, but everything you wanted happened, and you still want more. Without the deeper meaning nothing can feed your Soul.
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(This is for anyone who has a goal and starts working towards it. – weight loss goal, creativity, study, new skill – anything – What to expect? ) Everyone experienced this. We start working on an exciting goal, something we truly believe in, we feel inspired, determined, elated, powerful, clear, all the good stuff, and then… […]
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No magic here. Or rather: schedule is magic! Schedule creates momentum because…. Following your schedule you avoid decision fatigue. Inspiration alone is not enough when you show up to the task daily – inspiration starts showing up too As a procrastinator – when you put a small doable task on your schedule – even you […]
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Remember the time when you committed to certain food plan, and your friends judged you for eating healthy? In the past you would not want to “hurt people’s feelings”, you would want to “belong” by eating the same bad food. You’d eat it all. And you would hurt your feelings. Now you know how to set boundaries with love. And keep the promise you gave to yourself.
This is progress.
It’s not uncommon for us to procrastinate because we are confused. But it’s one thing to be confused because you learn something new, get the clarity and move on it’s entirely different thing to get stuck and indulge in confusion, In this article I cover three things: how to tell if you are stuck […]
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A lot of people are landing on my website because of few blogs I wrote years ago, on releasing the suppressed anger. But to read a blog is one thing. To do the work is another. Anger is a powerful emotion. Interestingly, it often erupts because we feel powerless. Here is what we did with […]
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It was 9:30 am and I needed a break. I was already tired and yet… I haven’t done anything yet. Except for lots of thinking. I know that the brain takes 20% of our whole energy, when working hard, but I was so mentally tired I really needed to take a look at WHAT was […]
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It’s not about willpower. It really isn’t… It’s about your awareness of what you do or don’t do. It’s about your ability to change the state of mind. About knowing what, when, and why to eat. Knowing how to plan. It’s really hard: to use willpower when you don’t know what to eat. when you […]
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Everyone’s story is unique. Everyone has a different story to tell when they arrive at the point when:“This (excess fat) has to go. I’m the real me when I’m thinner. I am ready to prove I can accomplish that.” I have been thinking about every person that coached so far with me… at what point […]
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Do you often find your self in the kitchen, foraging, especially when you have something important to do? I do. These days I know exactly what I’m doing, so I open the fridge, ask myself why am I here, and, since there is no good answer – I go back to my desk. But yesterday […]
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